I Tweeted about it; I've read every other blog post on the Internet about it; I'm excited to see Maureen Johnson & Libba Bray's rebuttal to it.
But I never planned on writing on it. And then I spent my morning reading about how YA saved Julie from committing suicide and about how Pam suffered through so much without the YA that she loves now and I just wanted to say a few things.
Don't you dare make teenagers feel less than they are.
Teenager is not a synonym for stupid, dumb, foolish, gullible, idiotic, moronic, senseless or trivial. It is a not a synonym for child or toddler or somebody who has not yet experienced anything and needs to constantly be led by the hand.
Teenager is a synonym for young adult. Look at the two words: young adult. We are still considered some form of adult. Are most of us older than 18? No. Do we go out in the 'real world' and have 'real jobs' and do 'real people things'? No.
But we sure deal with real life experiences. For people like me, we help our friends out when they get low. We don't have bad lives - we have our ups and downs, but as far as we can tell, we're average. Ups and downs is 'real life experience.'
And then there's teenagers who deal with 'real life experiences' that nobody wants to deal with. Rape. Abuse. Mental and physical disorders. Contemplation of suicide.
And they either drown or come through it, and those who come through it have something to help them - friends, or in some cases, the friends they find in books.
But if you tell me teenagers can't handle 'real things' - because real things are dark and gritty and yes, they're in books, but they're in life so much more - I will challenge you. I will yell and scream until you get it in your thick skull that teenagers are not stupid, or gullible, or oblivious to the world. Yes, we are young, but we are brave and smart and accepting and willing to take on the risks of the real world which is far more than I can say for any adult who dares try to tell me otherwise.

What have you been reading, WSJ? Because it sure isn't young adult.
I'm sorry, WSJ. Before I go into a well executed mini rant about my hatred of you and my love of young adult and everything it stands for, let me quote you. I, unlike some things, like to get my facts straight before I begin.
If books show us the world, teen fiction can be like a hall of fun-house mirrors, constantly reflecting back hideously distorted portrayals of what life is. There are of course exceptions, but a careless young reader—or one who seeks out depravity—will find himself surrounded by images not of joy or beauty but of damage, brutality and losses of the most horrendous kinds.
I highly recommend everybody read this offensive and incorrect article before I continue, as I can't find it in my heart to taint this blog post with more quotes.
Before I go into their attack on the darker aspects of young adult fiction, I have to laugh, because they classify all of YA into that category. I can turn around and pull at least three books off my shelves that don't tackle a darker theme. In fact, I will.
Books I yanked: Artemis Fowl by Eoin Colfer; Secondhand Charm by Julie Berry; How I Stole Johnny Depp's Alien Girlfriend by Gary Ghislain
All three are YA and none of these are dark books. To that parent that walked into the ya section: Are you blind? Or just oblivious!? There are so many fluffy and happy books. There are fantasy filled books that skim on the tale of good versus evil and focus more on the fun of magic; there are contemporaries that are all about falling into some fluffy romance; the science fiction that literally just takes you to another planet with no worries about all that "dark evil stuff" happening on Earth.
And for that dark, gritty, fantastic realistic fiction you talk about? To counteract the quote above, I shall use an example that I'm sure everybody can live with: one Mr. Albus Percival Wulfric Brian Dumbledore.
"Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if one remembers to turn on the light."
I will not deny that YA has it's dark moments. But in those dark tales of rape and loss and suicide and everything that you see in the news, there is a story. There are happy moments and hopeful moments and the lesson that you can get out of it okay. They tell you not to give in to those darker temptations because not all hope is lost. Hope will never be lost.
And to even claim that these books try to normalize or aid in people who cut or commit suicide or starve themselves makes me rage, people. They show what happens if you should continue. They give reasons to stop. They offer support, something to lean on, when times get rough and you feel like you need to.
And I've seen it happen.
YA Saves. And nobody can ever tell me otherwise.
#YAsaves is trending worldwide on Twitter. Come contribute your story.
This is a picture of my friend Becky.
We've been best friends for a very long time now. We met in ninth grade and managed to survive all of high school together; I just saw her and hung out with her at Barnes and Noble last week. Gorgeous girl, right?
She began starving herself during high school. Textbook anorexic case. Super skinny, never ate at thing. Began to lose some of her hair. Hormones all out of whack.
We all nearly lost her. Nothing we did could pull her out of this never ending downward spiral she was in. I would come into school every day and tough my best friend's wrists as they got skinnier; I would watch her absently pick at grapes and never really eat a meal; I listened to her talk about how she kept finding hair on her pillow and how she didn't know what to do anymore.
I owe Laurie Halse Anderson my best friend's life.
I don't know if she started to get better without it and it helped or if this is what triggered getting better. All I know is that the moment that she read Wintergirls, she knew she couldn't end up like the girls in the book. She did not - could not - be a Wintergirl. She didn't want to die. She didn't want to end up like those girls did.
One book. That was all it took to help save her life.
So don't you dare tell me that dark YA is for aiding people. YA saves lives. My best friend proves that every day.
| Me crying and thanking Laurie when I met her at BEA in 2010 |
We are YA.
Young adult is brilliant. It can be terrifying and dark and gritty and fantastic and wonderful and full of hope. It shows the darkest of the dark while letting us know that there will always be light.
Just like our lives.
We are the books we read. To attack them is to attack us.
And I will not have it. Not from WSJ, not from book banners, not from anybody who dares tell me I can't read something or that my friends can't read something or that some stranger in some state I've never met can't read something.
And if you dare tell me I can't read something like Living Dead Girl or Wintergirls or Stay or any of the books mentioned in that senseless WSJ article, I will tell you not to see a movie or watch the news or even go out into the world.
I'll stick with the books that teach me and give me hope.
You can keep sticking your head in the sand.






As an adult and a teacher who has to find the balance of what I can offer my students to read I say, "You go Girl!". I am so over parents and adults trying to dictate what everyone should read. If that parent didn't want her child to read anything but fluffy stuff then she should have just moved on to what she wants her child to read. There is plenty of it out there. I say this because I grew up in a very strict Christian home. However, my parents never censored what I read. They believed I had the intelligence to read and digest books in an intelligent way. They didn't think I would commit suicide if the main character in my book did. I applaud you and will link to your post on my site. Thank you for voicing your intelligent and well thought out reply to this type of idealogy.
ReplyDeleteThat is quite possibly one of the most ignorant articles I've ever read, on WSJ or anywhere. So kids that read Harry Potter, are they going to go all Voldemort on people's asses? I just don't understand the logic here.
ReplyDeleteYour story is amazing, Nicole. Seriously tearing right now. I just don't understand why people are still so resistant to gritty YA. Oh that stuff doesn't happen in my white picket fence neighborhood so it must not happen anywhere. And if it does, it's best to just ignore it because that'll make things all better.
thank you Nicole, you rock for a reason.
ReplyDeleteTo be honest, we don't even know how to respond. Your post is one that moved us to tears. Thank you for sharing it, and for supporting YA lit.
ReplyDeletelong live YA! here's my article about this crap.
ReplyDeletehttp://lindsaycummingsblog.blogspot.com/2011/06/yasaves-and-screw-you-wsj.html
Thats so true ; you moved me so much. And I can tell you, that YA books had saved me also because I was one of those people who had thought of suicide. You're awesome Nicole ♥
ReplyDeleteI love that you quoted Dumbledore. So much.
ReplyDeleteI am fully supportive of parents being active in their children's reading. They should know and even read the book as well. But never, never should a parent ban their TEENAGER from reading YA. There are so many amazing life lessons to be learned through these books that I am still learning at nearly 24. I think my parents would have preferred for me to read about drug use in Crank than actually go out and experiment myself.
Thank you for sharing that story about your friend. I'm glad she found the motivation and strength through a book. :)
Couldn't agree with you more. In fact, I quoted that same section about the fun house mirrors in my blog post about this atrocity. Love the Dumbledore quote too :D
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is <3.
ReplyDeleteThere needs to be a 'Love' button on this post.
ReplyDeleteLove this post. <3
ReplyDeleteAnd I completely concur. My part of mine and Julie's post was more rantish because I had a headache and it was 6am and I wasn't in the mood to get personal, but I was talking to Julie on MSN about it, how YA was one of the things that saved my life when I was at my lowest point with depression and self harm and was suicidal. =/
Your post made me tear up! Fantastic post and .. I'm glad books like Wintergirls are out there ... and me a difference! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteA VERY proud mama.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you and your friend. As someone who quietly dealt with eating and body image disorders while no one notices, I wish I would have had a friend like you and Wintergirls. It would have saved me a lot of pain. Thank you for sharing this.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness this was beautiful. Thanks for sharing that story about your friend. That is amazing. Totally proves that YA isn't evil and dark. It truly does save.
ReplyDeleteI almost started crying when I read this post. I'm a fellow teenaged book enthusiast, and the WSJ article was...infuriating to say the least.
ReplyDeleteHere's my post about it: http://thoughtsofaliberalhomeschooler.blogspot.com/2011/06/yasaves-and-wsj-or-third-largest.html
Great article. I haven't found one book that healed my world, but books collectively have given me life more times than I can count.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to see the teens themselves speak out about this.
New follower.
Thank you for your response.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn’t just a bad argument (unsound, to be more accurate) – but one of the most obviously one-sided “articles” I’ve ever read on the subject.
I had to respond with my take on the issue as well. I’m more of a literature/classics reader, but I did become a strong supporter for YA and its benefits – “Darkness and Light in Young Adult Books” has my thoughts about the whole thing. :)
So glad you responded! Well written and great points.
ReplyDeleteI was going to skip commenting on it too, but the more I think about it the angrier I get. I feel a blog post forthcoming too.
Wonderful, wonderful post. Thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteI'll just repeat what someone else here said, "You go, girl!" Well said.
ReplyDeleteGreat article! I'm a librarian and deal with parents complaining about gritty YA, they just want their kids to read fluff books. Well they can let their kids read it all they want, but everyone should have to right to read what they want no matter their age! I grew up in a home that did not censor my reading and I turned out just fine. Life is tough and I love books that are straight forward and deal with the tough subjects, because it will save someones life.
ReplyDeleteThat article is the most ignorant, biased, one sided argument I have ever heard of. I agree with you, what the heck have they been reading?!
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU for giving such a great response in our defense, you are truly awesome :), and I'm glad your friend got through such a tough time
I don't read YA now but I did read it growing up and I have to say, if it gets a kid reading - YAY! If it helps them to know that a character feels the same as them and helps them out - YAY!
ReplyDeleteI do believe parents should know what their kids are reading and perhaps read it themselves. This is what I will be doing when my kids get older. I think some kids are reading books that maybe aren't appropriate for their age or emotional age and that is where the parents need to step in.
Excellent post! I'm always thrilled when a teenager makes it through a rough time, having been there myself. All the better if a book helped them.
Wow Nicole. So glad your friend is okay now.
ReplyDeleteThis is my response! -"I was looking back at old mentions on twitter and I came across one about an article you were responding to from the New York Times and you said you would mention me...so I went and looked it and read the whole article, and then came to a picture of myself...and I don't even know what to say...I just want to start by letting you know that that book did save my life, and if you hadn't recommended it to me, I would probably be dead right now. It means so much that you would use that as an example, and there really isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of all those times in math class when i was really mean to you, because I just wasn't myself. I just want to say thank you (and apologize) - and I cant really say it enough, for never giving up on me..and always knowing that the real me was still in there somewhere. It took me a while to find her..but I definitely couldnt have done it without your support, or the book. I even gave it to Rob to read...because I feel like it gives such a better understanding of what the disorder really is. Also, the fact that you told Laurie my story and got her autograph for me was the coolest, most meaningful thing anyone has ever done for me. Thank you, i love you :) <3"
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